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Feb / 2026

If You Know Your Audience, Then You Will Choose Your Inner Circle Wisely!

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Just as in writing a novel, so it is in life. An author must identify their target audience, and so should each of us understand that the people we allow into our inner circle must love and sacrifice as we do, share similar goals and purposes, and hold common beliefs and interests. Otherwise, we set ourselves up for tension, heartache,
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Feb / 2026

Are You a Ghost Living On a Private, Remote, and Uninhabited Island?

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I previously hesitated to like, love, or comment on social media posts for the fear of being ostracized, pigeonholed, or even destroyed by people who didn’t see life through the same lens as I did. I had no desire to put my job, my relationships, or even my future dreams in jeopardy because of how I think, speak, and live.
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Feb / 2026

The Advantage of Pruning Unnecessary Stuff!

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Writing a novel can be like recovering from a destructive deep freeze. Over the next few weeks, and on into Spring, I’ll get out my handsaw, shears, and rake to clean up all that is dead and no longer adding beauty to my yard. The lifeless vegetation will then be piled at the curb and removed by the city. Similarly,
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Feb / 2026

If You Can See It, Then You Can Still Grab It!

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One thing about growing older, especially after entering retirement, is that it’s very easy to slip into a zone of comfort and detachment from the world around us. It’s a place where we stop pushing ourselves to be more than we are and gradually accept that the best years, experiences, and achievements are permanently behind us. Avoid that place at
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Jan / 2026

Don’t Let Your Dreams Perish On The Vine!

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Time goes by so fast, and especially so at my age! I’m 70 years old now, and I want to make every second of my remaining life meaningful and significant. That’s why I’ve decided to pursue my 55-year-old dream of becoming a published author. I don’t want my life to conclude like one of those movies where people would say,
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Jan / 2026

To Thine Own Self Be True!

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Don’t let popular, ever-changing social norms erode your personal identity and belief system. You were born into a brief but specific and unique time period. Therefore, I encourage you to think, speak, act, and live like you’re from that time period. Don’t be afraid or pressured by what anyone says about you or your kind, lest you abandon who you
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Jan / 2026

How Was Your First Kiss?

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Was it just two pairs of lips coming together for a few awkward moments to signal the birth of a fragile, new relationship? Or was it two sets of luscious, burning flesh interlocking with sizzling passion, as hormones exploded, and young love blossomed like an atomic bomb? Well, it depends on one’s perspective. For instance, would the first kiss between
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Jan / 2026

Life Is All About Correction and Change!

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I’m loving the incoming feedback from my beta readers! They’ve discovered things I’ve overlooked or never would have considered. If I want to succeed, I must embrace correction so I can make the necessary changes. I’m learning it takes a community to write and publish a book—spouse, family, friends, and publishing professionals! And, as I continue along the path toward
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Jan / 2026

Dig In and Keep Moving Forward in 2026!

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Are both your feet firmly planted in 2026? Do you believe this year will be better in ALL ways than last year? If not, you need to revisit your 2026 game plan to add more steel, inspiration, and commitment. Otherwise, you might be setting yourself up for great disappointment! I am confident I will have my first romance novel, Champagne
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Dec / 2025

Who Is, or Isn’t, In Your Inner Circle?

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I feel very blessed and fortunate to have spent most of my life surrounded by uplifting people who possess integrity, wisdom, and common sense. Their influence has significantly shaped the kind of man, husband, and father I strive to be. While I don’t see myself as perfect, and I do not expect to achieve perfection in this lifetime, I am
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